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Many Muslim girls struggle with the question of whether they should vesture the hijab, especially if they live somewhere where Islam isn't the predominant religion. While the choice is ultimately upwards to you, in that location will undoubtedly be a variety of factors influencing your decision, and it tin experience overwhelming at times. Remember, though, that regardless of your option, you can even so come up out of it with a deeper understanding of Islam - and of yourself!

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    Recognize what the hijab is. The term hijab is actually the Arabic term for creating a partition or barrier, and doesn't specifically hateful a type of caput roofing.[1] In Islam, hijab consists of the fundamental behaviors for modesty, likewise as how Muslims should dress. These rules utilise to both men and women, and vary depending on how close the person is to reaching puberty.

    • Many people frequently refer to a headscarf of any sort equally a hijab, so the significant is often context-dependent.
    • 1 of the most of import purposes of hijab is to identify the wearer every bit an adherent of Islam.
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    Sympathise basic modesty in Islamic civilisation. Muslims are required past the Quran to exist modest, especially around those of another gender, and must comprehend their awrah (what is accounted a private expanse in Islam). What counts as the awrah is largely dependent on the age and sex of the person in question - for example, babies do not have an awrah, and young children merely need to encompass their individual parts.[ii]

    • The awrah for a woman shortly before and after she reaches puberty is from her caput to her ankles. Most scholars hold that information technology's adequate to leave your face and hands uncovered, though not everyone agrees on whether yous should encompass your feet.[3]

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    Read the Quran verses about veiling. To gain a ameliorate agreement of the rules of veiling, it's important to read the Quran verses that accost it, with the most frequently cited verses being 24:31 and 33:59.

    • "And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their individual parts and not expose their beautification except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, their brothers' sons, their sisters' sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no concrete desire, or children who are non yet aware of the private aspects of women. And allow them not stamp their feet to brand known what they conceal of their beautification. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that yous might succeed." [Quran 24:31]
      • This verse is interpreted as the rules for both modesty and for veiling, and is the reason why most Muslims consider it a requirement to veil.
    • "O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and all the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they volition be known and non abused." [Quran 33:59]
      • This verse, prior to translation, uses the Arabic discussion jalabib (the plural of jilbab), which translates as "loose outer garments". This is frequently interpreted to hateful that Muslim women should clothing loose habiliment, rather than anything tight or form-fitting.[4]
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    Await into ahadith (plural of hadith) near veiling. Hadith, the sayings of the Prophet Muhammed and other religious figures of his time, often give further insight to parts of Islam that aren't elaborated on past the Quran. While not many ahadith refer to veiling specifically, at that place are some out there, including the following:

    • It was narrated that Aisha said that the Prophet said, "Allah does non take the prayer of a adult female who has reached puberty unless she wears a veil." [Sunan Abi Dawud 641; classed as Sahih by Al-Albani][5]
    • It was recorded that Safiya bint Shaiba said that Aisha said, "When [the Poetry], "They should draw their veils over their necks and bosoms" was revealed, the women cut their waist sheets at the edges and covered their heads and faces with those torn pieces of fabric." [Sahih al-Bukhari, Vol. 6, Book 60, Hadith 282][6]
    • Narrated Aisha, "The assertive women covered with their veiling sheets used to attend the Fajr prayer [the dawn prayer] with Allah'southward Apostle, and after finishing the prayer they would render to their home and nobody could recognize them because of darkness." [Sahih al-Bukhari 578][7]
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    Know when most people begin veiling. Well-nigh Muslim girls are accustomed to wearing the hijab by the fourth dimension they've reached puberty, though in that location are many views on when is the all-time time to starting time.[eight] New converts are encouraged to begin veiling every bit soon as possible, though it's acceptable to gradually transition into covering instead of all at once.

    • Some people believe that all girls should brainstorm veiling past age nine, even if she hasn't started puberty yet; others think it's best to wait until signs of puberty appear (such as the developing of underarm or pubic pilus, or the onset of periods). If no signs appear, then the daughter will be considered an developed by age xv in lunar years.[nine]
    • Other people introduce their daughters to wearing the hijab when they start learning their prayers at historic period seven, or past age 10 when the five-times daily prayer addiction may be established.
    • Most madrassas have rules requiring girls to wearable the hijab when attending Qur'an classes, which could be every bit young every bit age 5, as it helps them to develop their Muslim identity and to feel function of the global body of Muslims.
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    Be aware of the full religious significance of veiling. The hijab isn't just your headscarf - information technology's how yous cover yourself in full general. The requirements of hijab mean that the awrah must be covered. Simply put, the "rules" of wearing the hijab are:

    • To non display your appearance (beauty) except what is already apparent (i.e., your confront and easily, and possibly your feet).
    • To avoid showing hair on your caput.
    • To refrain from wearing tight clothing, so your effigy isn't exposed.
    • To wear your hijab so that it covers your head, neck, and chest (though not all Muslims wearable their hijab in this way).
    • To avert unveiling around those who are not-mahram.
    • The use of makeup while wearing hijab is debated, since the use of makeup tin can describe attention to your features. Near people agree that light awarding of makeup is acceptable, though, as long as it wasn't meant to depict the attention of others.[x]

    Did Y'all Know? Some Muslims believe that hijab must be truly small-scale, and that you lot should avoid flashy colors or designs. Others believe that it's okay to dress nicely or wear more colorful or patterned clothing, every bit long every bit it'southward not with the intent of drawing attending to yourself.

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    Know when veiling is not considered a requirement. At that place are some people that you are not required to wear the hijab around, who are referred to as mahram. While y'all are withal required to dress modestly around these people, it's fine to reveal your hair, arms, shins, and feet around them.[11] You are considered to be in the presence of mahram when around:[12]

    • Men who are considered family, such as your grandfathers, begetter, uncles, and nephews (however, this does not extend to cousins)
    • Your spouse, in-laws, and children (including stepsons and grandchildren)
    • Other Muslim women
    • Children who are non close to reaching puberty
    • Many Muslims have varying viewpoints on whether it'south okay to unveil around a non-Muslim woman; some believe it's fine considering you lot're around a woman, but others believe that a non-Muslim woman could draw your appearance to others.
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    Recognize the divergence between the hijab and the niqab. For new Muslims, it can be difficult to tell all the diverse types of head coverings apart; however, the hijab and niqab are not the same thing. The hijab is frequently a catch-all term for head coverings which always leave the face exposed; the niqab covers the wearer'due south face up likewise, with only the optics left uncovered.[xiii] Wearing the niqab is the norm in many Muslim countries, especially in the Gulf region, and is becoming increasingly commonplace in some Western countries, though nearly Islamic scholars concord that covering the face is not a requirement under the Quran.[fourteen] [15] Some women choose to wear the niqab to feel closer to Allah or to follow the instance of the Prophet's wives, who wore niqab.

    • Don't mistake the niqab for the burqa, which also fully covers the wearer, but has a pocket-size mesh paneling over the eyes.[xvi] It has a negative reputation, equally information technology's closely associated with the Taliban (as they forced women to wearable burqas).
    • Other types of head coverings include the al-amira, a two-slice tube-like scarf; the shayla, a long scarf that covers the head and is pinned at the shoulders; the khimar, a head covering that extends down to the waist; and the chador, a cloak that covers the head and is held closed by the easily.[17]

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    Sympathize how y'all feel most the hijab. You lot shouldn't feel obligated to wear the hijab but because your friends are wearing it or your parents are encouraging you to clothing information technology. Veiling must be your determination, based on your understanding of and conventionalities in religious rulings, and you should but clothing information technology when you feel ready and comfortable with it.

    • The hijab is non the end-all-be-all of Islam. There are many aspects of Islam, also as many reasons why someone would or wouldn't wear it.
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    Look at the laws in your country. While many countries don't have laws most the hijab in and of itself, some countries require that certain veils not be worn, restrict where they tin be worn, or require that they are worn. To avoid legal trouble in your area, expect upwardly the laws regarding hijab where you live.

    • Most bans on head coverings tend to apply to facial veils, similar the niqab and the burqa. Bans on all types of headscarves are uncommon, but non unheard of.
    • Conversely, some Muslim countries, such equally Saudi arabia and Iran, require that women wear a veil.
    • The consensus amidst Muslim scholars is that wearing the hijab after puberty is mandatory under Islamic law (Shariah). Yet, most non-Muslim countries exercise not legally mandate the hijab.
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    Think virtually your devotion to Islam. Wearing a hijab will immediately identify you as a Muslim, which can be both positive and negative depending on your location. If y'all're not sure how close you feel to your religion, or don't want to identify yourself as a Muslim, y'all may desire to concord off on veiling; if you definitely want people to know you're Muslim and feel very close to Islam, wearing the hijab or fifty-fifty niqab may seem like a natural step to take.

    • If you are not Muslim and want to article of clothing the hijab anyway, it's recommended non to do so, as the hijab is an deed of worship. It may upset or annoy other Muslims if y'all article of clothing information technology casually or like a way accessory.
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    Clarify how often y'all could wear the hijab or niqab. There are many reasons someone may non be able to clothing it all the fourth dimension - whether due to needing to go used to information technology, not living in a rubber or supportive environment, or working a chore where covering your head would exist unsafe or cause you lot to lose your job. Consider your circumstances - can you and do you want to start veiling all at once, or would you demand to make the shift gradually?

    • Often switching between wearing and non wearing the hijab is discouraged, so if you tin can't wear the hijab every day, you may want to wait until you lot can wear it regularly.
    • Endeavour not to detect reasons for not wearing hijab, but comprehend it as a gift from Allah.
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    Consider your safety at home. Not all Muslims alive in a home where their religion is accustomed by the people around them (be it family or roommates). If you live in a household where Islam isn't accepted, it may be in your amend interest to wait until yous live on your own or with more accepting people, especially if you fear you lot may exist disowned, kicked out, or abused for your religious beliefs.

    • While information technology is possible to wear the hijab when non with your housemates or family unit members, at that place's potential for someone to see and mention it to your living partners (such as a instructor commenting about your hijab to your parents), so tread carefully.
    • Alternatively, if you alive in a Muslim family just don't feel very connected to Islam, you may accept to veil until yous motility out if yous know your family would cause you physical or mental harm for not doing so.
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    Brand sure yous would be safe in your community. Social norms vary from place to place, and fifty-fifty if wearing or not wearing a hijab isn't technically illegal in your area, you may be harshly judged by those effectually you or fifty-fifty be physically harmed. While you may stand up out in some areas depending on whether or not you veil, consider your bodily safety, not simply whether you'd exist cartoon attention to yourself. Do you live in a safety area and have friends and family unit that take the right for yous to cull whether to veil, or would in that location be serious gamble of you lot being threatened or attacked for not conforming?

    • The residents of some Muslim-majority areas may treat a lack of hijab as socially unacceptable, and those who have called not to veil in Islamic countries (e.chiliad. Kingdom of saudi arabia or Iran) have received expiry threats and even been arrested.[18]
    • In non-Muslim countries or neighbourhoods, information technology's mutual to become odd looks or questions from those who aren't familiar with Islam and might non be sure as to what y'all're wearing. While they may be rude at times, that alone shouldn't discourage you if you'd like to wear the hijab.
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    Call back how much y'all are willing to cover. While some women comprehend themselves in some non-traditional ways (for example, exposing their wrists or ankles), information technology's extremely uncommon to wear shorts and short-sleeved shirts with a hijab and is disliked by other Muslims. By and large, if you want to vesture the hijab, you should exist willing to cover upwards to your elbows or wrists and ankles daily at the least, even when information technology's hot exterior.

    • Wearing hijab doesn't mean yous have to habiliment thick clothes during the summertime. Those who article of clothing hijab oftentimes wear thin and loose (merely not run into-through) clothing, such as the abaya, to avoid overheating.
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    Consider positives regarding the hijab. Information technology may be tricky to see what could be positive about wearing the hijab, especially if you live in a desert climate or aren't used to covering upward. However, there are some hidden benefits of veiling. Some of the positives of the hijab that Muslim women cite include:[19]

    • Being judged past your skills and intelligence rather than your appearance
    • Not having to focus on your appearance as much
    • Feeling closer to Islam and to Allah, as well as your Muslim friends and/or family unit
    • Being hands identifiable as a Muslim, providing an opportunity to speak with others about Islam
    • Being protected from unwanted stares
    • Earning rewards from Allah that may assist you lot to enter Jannah (Heaven)
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    Think about how the hijab could make your life harder. Even if you desire to wear the hijab, it's too very important to consider how the hijab could impact what seem to exist normal everyday life tasks. Especially in countries like the US and parts of Europe, Islam is non e'er viewed kindly and you may meet closed-minded people. Some of the well-nigh common difficulties associated with wearing the hijab are:

    • Bullying, discrimination, or harassment[twenty]
    • Difficulty in building relationships with non-Muslims[21]
    • Drawing attending to yourself rather than diverting it[22]
    • Existence a "spokesperson" for Muslims or receiving many questions nearly Islam[23]
    • It'southward also important to note that the hijab will not protect yous from sexual assault.[24]

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    Don't succumb to pressure from others. Once you've made your decision virtually whether or not to wear the hijab, others may encourage you to change your mind, and put forward some compelling arguments. Nevertheless, y'all should only modify your mind if you lot take a different indicate of view; pressure from peers or family unit can be difficult to overcome, but remember, they aren't you and can't make your conclusion.

    • Effort saying something like, "I respect your views and understand that y'all want me to do what you feel is best for me, only whether or not I wear the hijab is a decision betwixt Allah and I. Please don't tell me whether I should or shouldn't article of clothing it."
    • Retrieve that you lot can always choose whether to veil or unveil afterward, remembering that Allah likes consistency in acts of worship.
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    Notice other ways to limited your faith without covering. If you lot choose not to veil, whatever the reason, there are means of living up to your organized religion without wearing the hijab. (After all, being a Muslim isn't dependent on whether or not you veil.) Try to participate in activities that bring y'all closer to Allah and assist make the world a better identify.

    • Join Muslim groups, such every bit youth groups, events, clubs, study circles or mosques, where wearing the hijab is a choice.
    • Perform religious duties such as praying, bodily cleansing, or fasting.
    • Give money to charity (or, if you lot receive earnings, zakat), donate things such equally food, clothes, or furniture, or volunteer.
    • Gloat Islamic holidays, such as the month of Ramadan, Eid al-Fitr, and Eid al-Adha.
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    Consider dressing modestly if you lot choose non to veil. Some women who are close to their organized religion don't veil for a diverseness of reasons, but that doesn't mean that dressing in accordance with your faith is out of the question. If you lot want to cover upwardly, try wearing loose clothing, long-sleeved shirts, long pants or skirts, or other clothes that cover most of your body. While it'south not a necessity, information technology is encouraged.

    • If you want to veil simply wouldn't be safe wearing a hijab, consider other ways of covering your caput, such every bit hats, or roofing your neck using a scarf.
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    Follow the rules of a mosque. If you attend services at a mosque, it'southward frequently a requirement for women to cover their heads, out of respect for Allah and the other worshippers at the mosque. While the rules vary per mosque, information technology's more likely that the mosque volition require women to veil before they enter, especially in highly religious communities. To avert potential disharmonize, article of clothing a hijab if the mosque requires you to.

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    Begin wearing the hijab if that's what you make up one's mind to do. If or when you begin wearing the hijab, choose a style of hijab that yous feel suits you best and that you similar, and if fashion is important to yous, option out clothing styles that complement information technology. Remember when you lot should be veiling - during religious activities and around non-mahram people - and practise your best to clothing the veil during those times.

    • Remember that your hijab is an expression of your faith, and that you lot should be proud of it.
    • Information technology can be tricky to put on a hijab if yous oasis't put one on yourself before. Try practicing a few times at dwelling house before going out and looking up tutorials online, and request friends or family unit for assist.
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    Connect with others who share your choice. There are many different views on the hijab, and if you feel alone in your decision, think, y'all definitely aren't. Endeavor looking for social groups of people who share your decision on veiling - whether it's at a mosque, school, work, clubs, or fifty-fifty online. If you're uncertain nigh your decision or are struggling with it, having others around you who support your decision can be a major cistron in feeling secure in your choice.

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    Be prepared to explain your determination. Regardless of whether you lot wear the hijab, y'all may encounter people who don't understand your choice - be it other Muslims who think yous should cover, or non-Muslims who don't understand Islam. Remain calm when explaining your view, and exist prepared to explain information technology multiple times if your decision isn't the most common 1.

    • If you wear hijab and are asked why you wear it, try something like, "This is a hijab. I wear it considering I'thousand Muslim and information technology brings me closer to God."
    • In contrast, if you don't wear it and are asked about information technology, consider a response such equally, "I don't wear the hijab because I can't wearable information technology at my workplace due to safety bug. I don't feel comfortable wearing it sometimes, but not other times."
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    Stay confident! It can exist tough to stick with your decision about veiling, particularly if others around you don't do the same or aren't supportive. Making a drastic shift in your appearance can also exist jarring and you may experience exposed or like you're sticking out in a oversupply. Don't let this sway your choice. Ever strive to be the all-time person you can be, whether or not you veil.

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  • Question

    How tin I deal with people making fun of me considering I choose not to wear a scarf?

    Community Answer

    Be confident in your choice. The longer people see yous without it, the faster they will get accepted to you without it.

  • Question

    Is it okay if I wear a hijab if I am not Muslim?

    Community Answer

    Remember that hijab is not a mode. It is an act of worship! Peace be upon you.

  • Question

    How tin a 14-yr-old habiliment this confidently?

    Community Answer

    You tin can wear hijab confidently by agreement it. Hijab indicates modesty and that your personality counts more than your appearance. Many people are going to estimate you, but don't worry; to them, concrete appearance matters more than personality.

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    Muslims say that we shouldn't wear camel-humped hijab (high buns). If we shouldn't tie hair into a bun, so how tin can I hide my hair?

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    It should go down your dorsum, and a cloth that is big plenty to cover your hair, shoulders, neck and chest should comprehend it. If strange men are near, you should cover your face.

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    How can I find a hijab?

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    You tin can detect a hijab at large concatenation stores like Walmart or Target. If y'all live in a city, you might be able to observe a hijab store. Await for stores with names in Arabic.

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    Is it okay to article of clothing the hijab at historic period ten?

    Community Answer

    Absoloutly! Allah (SWT) will give you a lot of hasnat for starting at age 10!

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    How practise I wear a hijab in school?

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    Clothing it in a simple manner, similar the square method, information technology's fast and looks cute. You can wear long dresses or maxi skirts with the hijab.

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    What if I want to wear a hijab but I have to wear hearing aids since I tin't hear well?

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    May Allah reward you and grant yous force to habiliment hijab. This is truly a great step and Allah will brand it piece of cake for you and bless yous in it. In that location are many styles of wearing a Hijab, and the ears are meant to be covered - would it be possible to wearable the hearing aid and keep it covered with the hijab?

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    Every bit a Muslim, is it OK if I don't always wearable a hijab?

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    If y'all started wearing ane, you're not supposed to remove it at all (except at abode and in front end of your mahrams), so if y'all're not sure you tin do it, it's improve not to starting time wearing it.

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    Do I have to habiliment it in a specific way, or is a turban-mode hijab okay?

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    You can wear any fashion of hijab as long as you cover yourself. If you lot want to vesture a turban-style hijab, simply be sure to wear a dress or shirt that covers your cervix.

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  • Those who don't wear the hijab aren't necessarily "worse" Muslims than those who practise; many Muslim women who don't habiliment the hijab are just as pious every bit their hijab-wearing sisters. In the end, information technology'due south your determination.

  • If you live in a Muslim family, your parents may encourage you to wearable the hijab if you choose not to clothing information technology. It may assistance to talk with them about your reasons for non wanting to wearable it, such as not feeling set or being concerned about your safety.

  • If someone says that Islam is oppressive for "making" you veil, calmly point out that Jewish women and Christian women are supposed to veil as well (Numbers five:eighteen and Corinthians 11:5, respectively), and that the Virgin Mary covers her head in all the images that depict her.

  • Some people may give you glares and "looks". If this happens, just smile politely or wave, and exist polite and kind. Oftentimes, this will alert people that they are being rude.

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  • It's entirely possible that you may be harassed or even attacked for veiling or not veiling. If this happens, avoid reacting preemptively - walk away from the situation, and involve needed regime (such as school administration or police) if necessary. You are entitled to experience safe while expressing your faith.

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